cristanw:

Transwoman VS Ciswoman: An unfair transgender advantage?

Just in case anyone believes there is such an advantage.

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superqueerartsyblog:

✿ Walking talking queer encyclopedia with a healthy rose-cheeked smile! ✿

So not me.

telegantmess:

(Content notice: description of racist, anti-trans violence)

alexandraerin:

lesley213:

I really don’t understand all these people supporting Ce-Ce. Ce-Ce was verbally abused for being trans, and yes that should never have happened. But Ce-Ce KILLED a man for that verbal abuse. And of course that should lead to a prison sentence.

Or do you think just because someone is trans you should defend everything they do?

I really don’t understand how anybody could look at that and not consider it a matter of self-defense. CeCe was running away from a life-or-death fight that she didn’t start. The man she killed was chasing her down. 

Or do you think just because someone is trans you should attack everything they do?

Not only was she being chased, she had just been smashed in the face with a glass by one of the people who had been insulting her.

It should amaze me that some assholes are utterly glossing over the fact that there was more than just a verbal altercation in this case. They just absolutely have to hold on to the idea of a violent black trans women in spite of publicly available evidence. Wonder why that might be.

sholemhabibti:

The Boston Metro marks TDOR by running a sensationalist front page story about the major social problem of trans-on-cis crime. Inside the fold, unnecessary details about trans medical treatment and a lovely pull quote of pure cissexism!

Send your thoughts to Boston Metro by phone (617-210-7905) or by email (letters@metro.us)

PS: Nothing but hate for the murderer Michelle Kosilek herself but this should not be front-page news especially TODAY. 

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chubadubdub:

amajor7:

Dan Savage (founder of the “It Gets Better” project) is a perfect example of the whole “LGBT pride so long as you’re only a white cisman and nothing else” community.

Here are a few of the things he’s done:

  • He has called trans* people “trannies” and “shemales”, as well as told a parent they were selfish for not waiting until their child has graduated from high school to have their sex-change operation. [x]
  • He has attacked a rape survivor over her relationship with her husband [x]
  • Savage falsely labeled Washington State Attorney Rob Mckenna as transgender as a joke(?) [x]
  • He has stated that “avoiding bi guys is a good rule of thumb for gay men looking for long-term relationships.” [x]

You can find more of his sexist, racist, transphobic, biphobic comments here.

because people keep asking me why Dan Savage is awful and I really cant articulate sentences in general.

No love for Dan Savage.

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hedonisticparadise reblogged your post: I Think I Finally Realised What I Hate Most About Transphobic, Kinkphobic, etc Radical Feminists

THE MAN SAYS THE WOMEN ARE MANSPLAINING oh god…irony i’m dying

Oh, a transphobe displaying just what I was talking about.  Oh, the irony.

BTW, This is what I mean about people assuming my casab and assigning it based on what I say and on who they think deserves to be dismissed.  To transphobes like hedonisticparadise, I’m a camab man/male/etc who needs to stfu while to trans fundamentalists I’m a cafab man/male/etc who needs to stfu.  Same coin, different sides.

I Think I Finally Realised What I Hate Most About Transphobic, Kinkphobic, etc Radical Feminists

It’s the mansplaining.  You know, that thing where someone, almost always a man, attempts to explain something to you when you know as much as, if not way more than, them.  That’s exactly what these radical feminists are doing when it comes to trans, kink, sex work, parenting, sex, and so on.  They actually think their ignorance (ie, theory) is superior knowledge to those who actually have experience.  It’s also why it’s generally a waste of time to engage them.

(I have similar issues with trans fundamentalists, btw.)

Remember that invite-only sorority (Zeta Phi Beta) I got invited to?

hairbowsandbullets:

world-of-whit:

Yea, my invite got repealed due to “security issues:”

Because we are an organization of women, it is more difficult to explain membership of someone who is not a naturally born woman. We run the risk of being sued as an organization if we start to make exceptions.”


So much for being inclusive. Fucking bigots. 

Fuck them then, you’re better off if they’re gonna pull shit like that

(Content warning for quoting transphobia and transmisogyny)

tonidorsay:

Going to talk about trans critical. No, I don’t mean the engineering issues or the mathematical concept. I mean the thing where people decide to couch their obvious and intense anxiety, animus, and/or aversion to trans people under the rubric of “trans critical” because they are critical of trans.

Let’s start out with one quote, slid out of tumblr, which I went and visited again for some damn fool reason.

Being trans critical, in my opinion, should be about criticizing the harmful aspects of transgender politics and the transgender movement as a whole. These include things like the promotion of an innate “gender identity,” the push to eliminate female only spaces, the belief that “identifying” as a man or a woman automatically makes you one, the acceptance of gender stereotypes as good and natural, and so on. It should not be about demonizing transsexual people, singling people out to mock on an individual level, denying the legitimacy of sex dysphoria, or casting transition as an illegitimate “choice” rather than a last-resort treatment for a life threatening medical condition.

Most trans critical people aren’t guilty of doing those things, but it’s more common than it should be for people to cross the line. Gleefully throwing slurs like “tranny” and “shemale” around, mocking the appearances of transsexual people who haven’t done anything to deserve it, and describing medical treatment for transsexualism as “mutilation,” are all examples of what I would consider to be transphobic. When I see people do these things I completely lose interest in listening to anything that they have to say and, frankly, any respect that I had for them beforehand.

Now for a take from a different perspective:

Being trans critical means pointing out issues within trans theory and trans feminism. Some critics might call for changes within trans theory, other critics might call for rejecting trans theory. I think allies should be more trans critical.

Examples: “I am not convinced of the limbic-system sex theory.” “I had a lot of trouble accepting my body during puberty, and I’m not sure how my body-image issues differed from their body dysphoria.” “I am convinced that butch flight is real.”

Being transmisogynistic means hurting trans womyn, degrading trans womyn, or supporting social norms which hurt trans womyn. I am disappointed that some other feminists practice transmisogyny in the name of trans-criticism.

Examples: “All transsexuals rape women’s bodies.” “Male to Constructed Female.” “They expect we’d be shocked to see statistics about them being killed, and don’t realize, some of us wish they would ALL be dead.” “Surgically and Chemically Altered Male.”

Now for two others, from the people who essentially started the whole idea of “trans-critical”, and then we’ll get on to my take on the whole concept…

Gender Identity Disorder is very much a mental illness. It causes people to:

— hate their own bodies up to and including a strong urge to cut off perfectly normal, perfectly healthy body parts, take dangerous hormones, etc.;

— be virulently jealous of people who have the body-type they wish they had or think they “ought” to have;

— be completely, self-indulgently, vociferously irrational about the simple facts of reproductive biology, unlike 99.8% of the rest of adult human beings (e.g. demanding that others agree that their penis is “really female” and that their male body is “really a lesbian’s body”, etc.);

— based on my observations, GID also causes people to engage in histrionic manipulation, to engage in obsessive behaviors (e.g. stalking people who reject them sexually, relentlessly following people on-line that they “hate”, spending thousands of hours over a period of decades endlessly obsessing over “gender” presentation) and to exhibit extremely poor impulse control, for example, lashing out with virulent death wishes or threatening/attempting suicide when socially thwarted, and entering into dangerous sex-work, drug abuse, drinking binges, homelessness, etc. rather than successfully adjusting their life-style to fit in with the basic parameters of the working world — a world that millions of (for example) lesbians, bisexuals and gay men manage to negotiate successfully despite our differences from the expected social “norm”.

GID also appears to present with the co-morbidity of clinical depression in a high percentage of cases.

the above is an example of a trans critical post from a blog that pretty much only does trans critical stuff. So that’s very much an example of what trans critical actually is. And here’s a story from another one of the leading trans critical blogs, also an example of what transcritical is in practice.

Who is trans? Who has the right to “gender-bend”? Who has the right to attempt to impersonate the opposite sex? When is trans “authentic” and when is it not?

These issues are coming to the fore as conflicts around the hastily and ill-considered “gender identity” laws which were passed in the last decade become tested by real life application.

Who are the Gender Identity laws- which are being pushed by mainstream LGBT organizations- designed to protect? It’s the heterosexuals, stupid.

In Portland a group of sexual fetishists (heterosexual men whose sexual arousal occurs by imagining themselves occupying the sexual “object” = female) filed a complaint against a bar that refused to allow them to hold gatherings there on Friday nights. The reason? These hetero male fetishists, the “Rose City T-Girls” insisted on using the women’s restroom, reportedly leaving the seats up and pissing all over and generally making the women unsafe and uncomfortable.

Now, these guys make no claim to being “men in women’s bodies”, the standard internal, subjective, self-reported claim which Gender Identity laws are intended to protect. These guys get erections pretending to be female. Do Gender Identity protections force women into nonconsensual participation in these males sexual activities? Yes. And do Gender Identity laws remove the rights of women to privacy in women’s showers, locker rooms, restrooms and other areas segregated by sex for the safety of women from predatory males? Yes. Do Gender Identity laws remove the rights of women to act defensively and “trust their gut” in situations where some creepy dude is imposing himself? Yes.

Do transgender movement activists make a distinction between transsexuals who have undergone cosmetic medical or surgical “treatments” and hetero dudes that get erections pretending to be female? No. Do transgender movement activists make a distinction between individuals that have obtained legal “gender” recognition or otherwise objectively demonstrated a history of persistent internal self-concept of oneself as “the wrong sex” – and hetero dudes that get erections pretending to be female? No.

Let’s face it. Gender Identity is a religion. It is a personal internal belief, completely subjective, unprovable, faith-based. Gender Identity protections protect the right to personal faith and personal belief in stereotypes based on reproductive sex. But religious protections don’t provide the right to stomp on the rights of women. A man may have the right to sacrifice chickens to express his internal subjective faith-based beliefs. But he doesn’t have the right to do so in the Ladies Room at the corner pub. And he must have objective proof of authenticity of his religious belief – such as proof of duration, proof of commitment. He can’t just claim to be temporarily Jewish to force his employers to give him the day off for Yom Kippur for example.

Now, if you see a marked contrast between the way it is described in the first two examples and the second two examples, then you are seeing the difference in the way that “trans critical” is seen by trans people, and how it is seen by the people who cling to the label like it was their last salvation.

Now me, I sit there and look very closely at the whole nightmare that is tied up there. And then, because I want to be sure that I’m showing how *most* of the people who use that terminology mean it, I figure I’ll toss a few more examples out there, just to hammer home the point I make down the road here:

Feminism will be transcritical or…
will not be feminism at all.

If everyone can claim to be a woman,”woman” makes no sense as a category anymore. our opression wil be erased.

i read a text,wrote from a radfem,i guess,saying radfeminism ( a.k.a the only feminism ´cause the rest if fauxminism) should not put so much energy in being transcritical because after all there are not so many trans out there. i say we should put MORE energy on this issue,because of what i said above and because the trans ideology needs to make more trans to keep alive. maybe now they aren´t many,but soon they can be.

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Why I am trans-critical
A woman is not something a man can become.

A woman is not something a man can become.

A woman is NOT something a man can become.

Being a woman is having a vagina. Being a woman is menstruating. Being a woman- and I’m talking biologically, here - is having a uterus and ovaries.

Being “female” on the other hand is something different.

But men cannot, should not and will not ever be women.

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The quote I posted, to which you are referring, points out that certain interpretations of the transsexual subjective experience do indeed constitute a threat to women because they extend— rather than challenge— patriarchal logic. Specifically, the patriarchal logic promulgated by cultures that have institutionalized (a) male power over women and (b) the idea of women as objects to be owned by the powerful. This logic is very consistent with the traditional transsexual/transgender narrative. Why? Because that narrative or understanding of subjective transsexual experience is that some MAABs arewomen, that they can become women, and that they can literally have (own) female bodies, and can therefore do anything they want to them, and by extension to women as a class (e.g. define female experience and female bodies however they want even when FAABs object, challenge the traditional feminist knowledge and boundaries of FAAB feminists, and attempt to take leading, aggressive roles in our movement).

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What I meant by that why I am trans critical post is:

YOU HAVE TO BE BORN A WOMAN. I sould have worded it a LOT better than I did- but you can’t just “become” a woman.

Shouldn’t have put all that stuff in about vaginas. I apologise.

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They are using analysis and critique to pointedly bring into question a politics and a movement that is firmly entrenched in and reinforcing of the idea that “woman” is merely something that can be worn like a costume while the real experiences lived by females can be dismissed or erased entirely. By analyzing and critiquing the language, arguments, politics, and behaviors of transgenderism, we are firmly aligned with feminists who critique other systems and institutions that are damaging to females, such as pornography, prostitution, and phallocentric/PIV sexuality.

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So what we have, in terms of how trans critical is actually used — that is, what it *really* means, as opposed to what some people would like for it to mean — is that the very idea that transness exists is being examined critical, and in a negative, hostile manner, with a focus on actively ingorning anything that the people whose very existence is the subject of that criticism might say in their defense, unless it can be used to make them look like horrible people.

So, given that is the practice, allow me to quote another trans critical statement that is not from people who claim to be trans critical, but who’s work is decidedly very much in the same arena.

In a California incident in 2008, students and parents were outraged to learn that a female music teacher at Foxboro Elementary School underwent surgery to become a man. Parents were not informed about this so-called sex change in advance so they could remove their children from her class. In addition, the kids were required to refer to her as “Mister.” The school district refused to notify parents about this she-male’s so-called sex change because of “privacy laws” – that is, federal HIPPA laws. By using the privacy laws within HIPPA as a shield, transgenders are seeking to transform laws designed to protect working mothers and those with pre-existing conditions into something HIPPA was never intended to do — push the homosexual agenda. When school districts hide behind HIPPA in order to introduce transgenders into the classroom, the alarms start going off in churches and families across the United States.

The inherent fallacy of a “sex change” operation is simple. A person can have as much cosmetic surgery as they please, but their DNA remains unchanged. Maleness and femaleness remain firmly rooted in the DNA of a person. The very idea that a slight touch-up here or there somehow alters the essence of a person approaches the absurd — unless there’s a government bureaucrat and a federal judge giving a “thumbs up” in the background.

Fascinating, isn’t it?

Those who pay close attention will note that the heart and soul of what Trans critical means in practice — again, in the way that it is actually used, in the ideas and efforts that surround the way that people who claim to be transcritical actually perform the criticism part — will likely see the disconnect between the trans people who talk about it and the people who are, well, just bigots saying they are trans critical and using that to make their statements seem less like what they actually are:

Hate mongering.

I’ve been threatened before for pointing this out: the book written by Raymond, where all the people who are trans critical find their core ideas about transness and trans people, calls for a moral extermination of trans people — for genocide, bluntly. I’d say that in court, and, given the process of  one person (not whom you might expect), I may even find myself doing so.

The kind of stuff that is claimed and said by people who say they are trans critical and that is defended as being trans critical is that exact kind of effort that she was calling for.

It uses a moral judgment to make the case for transness being labelled an aberration and stopped from being possible — look at the stuff above, once more.  We have people saying that trans women are not women. That they are predatory.  That they are violent and terrible — and the small handful of perhaps 500 people the world over who are brutally active in this have created sites in all manner of ways and forms that basically take the time to call out trans people for anything that they can claim a moral leg to stand on over those trans people — and by extension, all trans people.

Which tells us, at least a little, why the initial two quotes strive to make it into something other than that.

Now, there are ways to criticize aspects of trans culture,  things about the ideas that some trans people have, and so forth that could be called such, but at this point, to use that terminology is very much akin to using the term tranny.

Say it, and people know right off the bat that you are, no matter what you claim, a complete and utter bigot who has serious issues with trans people and transness.

Now, I’ve run into this “trans-critical” commentary in other places — it begins, as most ideas do, to take on a life of its own. Which is fine, in and of itself, but at this point in things, the meaning of the concept trans critical is to be critical of trans people.

But even if the idea was to be critical of transness, it is going to run into the problem of it being widely considered as a factual concept that transness is innate.  And not just by trans people.

How it is innate, no one truly, really knows — there is some aspects of biology involve,d but it is not a simple thing and it is not easily determined or tested for.

I’m not above pointing that out, but I’m also not above pointing out that walking down the path of essentialism that’s there is pretty fucking stupid, because, in the end, it is biological essentialism.

Comes in handy in arguments on that realm (“Born female”), but then you are using two really fucking asinine arguments against each other, neither of which has any real value intellectually.  Essentialism is avoided like mad even by biologists, who know far too well how stupid that argument is and how long ago all arguments based on that were pretty much shut down.

The same thing, by the way, applies to evo-psych. At the very core, arguments which rely on something being “biological” or physiological are deeply, deeply flawed when it comes to dealing with people.

Cats, too, probably.

Once you step out of that realm, however, you find yourself on ground that hasn’t been well tread, that isn’t as pretty and simple and “clean”, and above all else, those people who are trans critical are looking for and seeking something clean, and sharply defined, and will, ultimately, contort themselves into all manner of fashions to prove their points, with moving the goalposts just the start.

What’s moving the goal post, you ask?

It’s “special pleading” — creating exceptions when a point is shown to be wrong.  For example, the statement “All women are born with Vaginas”.  Well, not all women are born with vaginas. Point that out, and they say “well, all women have a cervix”  and so forth — constantly moving the point at which they appear to accept being wrong further and further out.

That is also a no true Scotsman fallacy, so things like that give you a two-fer on the stupid scale. And in these kinds of arguments, you run into stupids a lot.

Trans-critical arguments are also not truly critical — they are, almost uniformly and no matter how one sees them, emotional pleadings.  That is, they have no link to logical truth, they are all about the emotional feel of something.

Like the Republicans who were all swearing that they won and even spending 25,000 donated dollars on fireworks the day of the election, or Karl Rove who was on FOX news saying that he didn’t believe in the models and the tools that FOX news was using to call Ohio for Obama (after everyone else already had), for them it is all about the emotional argument that is in play at that time, the way they feel about it, the way they believe.

I often say and stress that Belief isn’t what I argue on.  I argue on facts. What I believe may guide me down the long haul (and is important, because I look to the future), but getting there requires me to use facts, and reason, not what I believe.

that is the luxury of those who have genuine privilege, not false privilege. The luxury of those in a position of a dominant class — and those not in those classes who have been fooled by the others.

So remember this when you see commentary by people who call themselves “trans critical — even if they are trans.

Critical thought doesn’t rely on emotional pleadings.  Critical thought doesn’t present scotsman fallacies.  Critical thought doesn’t move the goal posts or false causes or slippery slope arguments.

Trans critical, in practice, isn’t’ critical at all.

It’s just being a really big fucking asshole.

If You Think That You Get to Ignore My Experiences

because it ruins your theory, you are likely either a transphobic radical feminist or a trans fundamentalist and probably should stop following me.

alloutoffuqstogive:

Wir Bauen Eine Neue Stadt: On Representation

lucypumpkin:

freedominwickedness:

lucypumpkin:

freedominwickedness:

lucypumpkin:

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telegantmess:

And the conversation I saw was claiming that CAFAB folks who were trans or non-binary have male privilege. Which is true of many of them, but based on their presentation and identification with masculinity, not their CASAB. You are shifting the goal posts, and trying to make my argument into something it is not.

As a response to your point about chest surgeries and access, could a non-binary person who wished to get chest surgery, either augmentation or mastectomy, get it without having to lie about their narrative and attempt to pass as something they are not to do so?  Because I have yet to find more than a handful of places in the US that will even consider transition for binary identified folks who don’t have the right narrative, much less out non-binaries. 

Like I said, trans men and masculine identified folks do dominate the spaces an resources at the expense of trans women. And it has to do with much more than CASAB.

When we insist on enforcing the narratives that are being used to oppress us, what good are we doing for ourselves? No one is denying the issues you are bringing up, we are wondering if it is possible to destroy the framework that is being used to oppress.

Or is it impossible to have both conversations?

No. Fuck narratives.

Genderqueer and non-binary CAMAB folk have to concede to permanent sterilisation before they can get top surgery. End of conversation. They not only have to go through all the same bullshit of having to lie and conform to narratives as CAFAB folk do, but on top of that must “voluntarily” sterilise themselves. It’s as simple as that.

We can have a conversation about how ASAB shouldn’t matter when it doesn’t matter. You cannot destroy the framework that is oppressing us by refusing to see that the frame work not only exists but oppresses us both in very different ways.

And our position has stayed the same throughout this entire conversation, and the conversation before that and the one before that. If you decide to talk about something unrelated, and we tell you to stop derailing us, that’s not us moving the goalposts. That’s us refusing to allow you to pigheadedly put yourself at the center of a conversation that isn’t about you.

Non-binary people pointing out you’re wrong when your lovely privilege discussion falsifies non-binary experience is not derailing and unrelated ffs.  Seriously, the reply above sounds exactly like how transphobes, especially radscum, respond when it’s pointed out that their vaunted theories erase and misgender the hell out of trans* women and other trans* people.  That’s not good.  You might want to think about that, like thinking “Hey, not shitting on other people just because I feel under siege is a good idea.  I should listen when people are trying to help me with my theorising, instead of assuming all kinds of shit about them and deciding they’re opposed to my main point.”

And with this, I think I’m more or less done.  I am over the self-righteous theorising bullshit of trans fundamentalism and don’t think I have any more to add.  I am disappoint.

As a CAMAB nonbinary trans person, I find that anything said by CAFAB trans people — binary or nonbinary alike — needs to be taken with a huge grain of salt due to the immense amount of privilege enjoyed by CAFABs. Doubly so if they’re white or white-passing. Given that studies have shown that 98% of all anti-trans violence is against CAMAB trans people and 70% is specifically against CAMAB trans people of color, CAFAB trans people in general and white CAFABs in particular really need to hold their tongues.

Okay, so now given that you don’t know my CASAB and can, at best, assume it, are you going to actually respond to what I said or just continue to propagate a theory of privilege that doesn’t reflect reality while justifying it with “CAMAB trans people experience more violence”?  In other words, are you going to continue copying transphobic radical feminists’ behaviour when how they’re wrong is pointed out to them?  Because the irony is killing me.

(And, no, I’m still not revealing my casab for this because that’s some of the shittiest reasoning I’ve ever heard for justifying ignoring objections people have brought up, and I still despise people assuming they know me based on knowing my casab.)

Just as I decline to discuss racism with anyone who insists that their race is secret and/or irrelevant, so also do I decline to discuss trans issues with anyone who insists that their CASAB is secret and/or irrelevant.

It is impossible to consider your viewpoint without knowing the context of that viewpoint. Furthermore, accepting your declaration of CASAB being off-limits would render the entire discussion moot, since the entire point we’re arguing about is the importance of CASAB.

You are proving my point for me about why I don’t reveal my casab.  Because, you have an unfalsifiable idea that casab determines someone’s validity even if all they’re doing is saying, “Hey, this theory of yours hurts and erases me.”.  I don’t argue that my casab is entirely irrelevant, but it’s none of your business, yes.  Are you next going to ask if I’m ‘pre-op’, ‘post-op’, or ‘non-op’?  My objections do not rely upon my casab, they rely upon the fact that your binarist theory erases and misgender/missexes trans* and non-binary people, and it eliminates all possibility of eliminating transphobia and transmisogyny because people will always be judged on their genitals/casab.  Trans* liberation dies with accepting that casab is a legitimate form of oppression and that people have to reveal their casab on demand, like how we have to tell cis people what our genitals are like.

How does my pointing out that you have provided no justification, no evidence for the incredibly sweeping claim that all cafab trans* people have male privilege need to be certified by a doctor who examined my genitals at birth and stamped either ‘male’ or ‘female’?  When do facts need context?  I’m not providing a ‘viewpoint’, I’m pointing out that you have no argument, that all you have is a claim that is then defended by waving the bloody shirt of dead trans* women.  Which is not evidence, it’s an appeal to emotions, to fear and anger, to feeling attacked.

Look, clearly you can decide that you don’t want to deal with actual, valid criticism of your binarist argument that says trans people will always be defined by their casab, can not ever escape that system of surveillance and oppresison.  That’s your privilege.  But don’t kid yourself in thinking that you are somehow theorising a way to liberate camab trans* people or anyone else.  You aren’t.

So according to freedominwickedness- trans* people should accept their birth sex as relevant to their lives, and aren’t allowed to keep their medical history private.

We are meant to tell people, and people CAN force us to reveal it.

My experiences of being triggered by it are irrelevant (I’m NOT ALLOWED to have dysphoria about it) and my experiences regarding this are irrelevant.

:. Freedominwickedness promotes and upholds cissexism and transphobia.

Nothing new to see here. I think this post says all it needs to say about her, really.

I think we can call this discussion closed!

I agree with almost all of that.  The fact that not disclosing one’s casab can be a safety issue for cafab and camab trans* people alike (especially given the doxing/stalking by certain transmisogynists/transphobes) doesn’t seem to have even occurred to her as a possibility.

I do think that freedominwickedness is not intentionally trying to uphold cissexism and transphobia but that certainly is the effect.  As is binarism, false universals, and so on.

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pastimperfection:

pseudoineffectual:

sp00kytrueperfection:

saturniinae:

yourmomisapastiche:

sinspookycosas:

Roseanne Barr being a transphobic asshole.

I’m done.

Respect that fact?  Respect the fact that I will cut you.

She’s definitely being an ass but I don’t see why men even need to be a part of this conversation. 

Forever side-eyeing any cis man who reblogs this. I have yet to meet a single one of y’all who doesn’t use your ~trans ally~ card as an excuse to attack women and demonize feminists.  I am not a radfem by ANY means but the discussion surrounding trans women and bathrooms is not your fucking discussion. Get. Out. 

god bless roseanne barr

forever laughing at “traitor!!!!” no sorry a traitor would be a female that prioritizes the whims of males over the safety and comfort of females (see: libfems)

I suppose I will just never see why supporting sex-specific bathrooms makes one inherently evil. I’d gladly support measures to get more family style, unisex bathrooms available for individuals who are trans or otherwise feel uncomfortable in single sex bathrooms, but not opening up female only bathrooms to anyone with a male body. 

 Roseanne is being overly crass here and I assume I’ll lose followers or special all-inclusive feminist points here but yeah, I’m on her side.

Yes, a trans woman using the stall next to a cis woman is just like a man shoving his dick in a woman’s face.  That is an anti-sexist thing to say.  I will be sure to remember it the next time I am groped on the subway, because it will make me feel so much better. 

Hampshire college just announced that it’s using “self-identified” as a gender marker for separate bathrooms.  It may make some people uncomfortable, but even that won’t last.  Understand that gender-neutral bathrooms are feasible, especially given the push for accessible bathrooms under the ADA.  Both are increasingly common. 

A lot of aspects of this discussion just flat-out confound me, including this: “We don’t want to expel trans women, we just want to expel people with penises, including trans women who have penises.  This cannot be conflated with excluding all trans women.”

From feminists!  Even now!  It is baffling. 

Do you remember abortion and the rape exception?  You can take issue with restriction in general, obviously, but this specific exception is especially offensive.  Because what happens to a rape victim?  Does she see her rapist in prison?  Does he normally pay any social penalty for her accusation?  Is she protected at all?  Is her status as a victim even acknowledged?  Is he even stopped?  And is she protected from abusive contact with authority subsequent to official acknowledgement of her rape, should she be lucky enough to receive it? 

Generally none of the above, right?  Which means that when you support exceptions for rape victims in law, you support no exceptions for rape victims in fact.  In practice, you are not only forcing rape victims to have children with their rapists, you are holding out additional humiliation and trauma as though it were some kind of favor.  As though it showed you cared. 

Consider, therefore, what you are actually saying when you argue for an exception for trans women who have vaginas.  Imagine how that would work in practice, such that a trans woman would be forced to prove, one way or another, that she had a vagina and therefore deserved to use the women’s bathroom.  Imagine how much power a “papers, please” rule would give to any transphobic official who wanted to harass or arrest a trans woman. 

Imagine, also, what would happen if it were a crime for pre-operative trans people to use the “wrong” bathroom.  Imagine the effect that such a precedent would have on trans women’s claim to F-marked documents for other purposes, or on the legal definition of “woman” itself.  And imagine what it would feel like to know that you had to expose yourself to anyone who demanded you verify your womanhood.  Would you feel less demeaned if you only had to show a piece of paper explaining the appearance of your genitalia? 

Bear in mind that trans men don’t always get surgery, either, and usually don’t get it before they start presenting as male.  Would you force a trans man to constantly out himself until he managed to obtain surgery?  Would you, in fact, be totally comfortable with all those men using the women’s room?  And if you’re comfortable with that solution in theory, do you expect it to cause no problems in practice, since trans men, being men, look just like men? 

Public restrooms exist outside of Starbucks.  What about in the workplace?  In a university?  Most trans people have zero protection against harassment or discrimination on the job.  Still okay with you?  Should a trans woman have to out herself to every single coworker rather than use the women’s restroom at work? 

Legislators have been predictably eager to class common surgical options as not good enough for a legal status change.  There isn’t necessarily The Surgery; the law’s language might not reflect medical terminology or practice.  A new policy trend away from self-identification and back towards a legal definition of The Surgery might even make it far more difficult for trans people to exercise medical autonomy and ever change their gender markers.  Take a current example: some jurisdictions specifically require sterilization to obtain legal gender marker change.  Is that okay with you? 

Or say it wasn’t: how about creating separate legal categories so that trans women can obtain some legal measure of recognition (BUT NOT ACCESS TO THE LADIES’) even if they haven’t yet undergone whatever happened to be legally defined as The Surgery.  Normal Women Who Do Not Need Operations, Post-Operative Trans Women, Pre-Operative Trans Women.  Or we could just separate into Women Without Vaginas and Women With Vaginas.  No problem there, right? 

None of these problems are hypothetical, although their real-life equivalents may seem less ludicrous to some.  This is the status quo that trans-friendly, gender-neutral facilities change.  This is what trans people no longer have to go through (quite as much) just to exist in public without fear of official sanction. 

It is offensive to speak as though trans people aren’t real, as though none of these issues are real or relevant.  It’s offensive to tell a trans woman that she has to have surgery on her genitalia to use a public facility for women and not be forced to out herself in a public facility for men.  It’s offensive to stack that costly, sometimes unwanted, maybe impossible requirement up against suffering the presence of a trans woman in the women’s restroom. 

But it is also offensive to act like it’s a concession.  “Not anti-trans, anti-penis” isn’t just useless.  It’s as transphobic as “…except for rape and incest” is misogynistic.  And just as cowardly.  That’s why people are calling you transphobic, transmisogynist, cissexist assholes.  Your position is all of the above, whether you understand why or not. 

And it must be said: trans-friendly restrooms do not endanger women.  They don’t offer predators an awesome new way to sneak into public bathrooms without being noticed, or prevent women from noting and reporting creepy behavior.  In fact, these laws protect some cis women, because lots of cis women are gender-ambiguous, too. 

Reblogging for pastimperfection’s commentary.

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It turns out Roseanne Barr is a transmisogynist fuckwad

waronxmas:

So idk, if she’s one of your ~feminist heroes~ I’d rethink that.

Seriously, though, that’s really shitty and disappointing. I’m just kind of disgusted with anything related to her now.

No, I’m not reblogging what she actually said.  I don’t think people need to have that shoved in their faces.  Go look for it on her twitter or elsewhere here if you want to know.

christinathena:

genderpunk:

christinathena:

If you think a good way of insulting a woman you disagree with is to imply that she has a penis, please unfollow me. It is not at all funny and actually very transphobic to make “jokes” about “Mann Coulter” or “Andy Coulter”. Ann Coulter has said a lot of horribly vile things and the worst thing you can think of to say about her are “jokes” about her imagined genitalia?

Uhm, yea. Fuck that. 

I like to refer to Ann Coulter as a hypocritical pile of steaming horse dung. 

See? Isn’t that so much more descriptive? 

A much better and more accurate insult!

Yet more evidence of why I love genderpunk.

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